Being in a thought means believing it, reacting to it, and acting on it without noticing that you have done so.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy in Brampton
For When Your Mind Is Always Somewhere Other Than Where You Are
You are in the car and you do not remember the last ten minutes of the drive.
You are at dinner with your family and mentally still in an argument from four o'clock. You lie down exhausted, and your mind picks that moment to replay something from 2019. You cannot switch off, and being told to relax has never once helped.
Most people assume the answer is to think less. Mindfulness-based work takes a different view. The problem usually lies not in the thoughts themselves but in how tightly they hold us.
At C.S. Counselling & Consulting Services, we incorporate mindfulness-informed strategies into counselling when they align with your concerns, goals, and the professional training of your therapist.
Mindfulness-informed counselling is available through appropriately trained clinicians at our Brampton practice, with virtual counselling available across Ontario.
Start With a Conversation
Book a free 30-minute consultation: 416-409-8045.What Is Mindfulness-Based Therapy?
Mindfulness means paying attention to the present moment, deliberately, without immediately judging it.
That sounds simple and is not, because attention naturally drifts into what has already happened and what might happen next. Both are places where worry and regret live.
Mindfulness-based therapy applies these principles to emotional difficulty. Rather than trying to eliminate anxious or distressing thoughts, it builds the ability to notice them arriving, recognize them as thoughts, and choose a response instead of being carried off by one.
A useful distinction:
Noticing a thought means seeing that your mind has produced something and that you do not have to follow it.
That gap between the two is small, and it is most of what this work is about.
It is worth being clear about what this is not. It is not emptying your mind, which is not achievable. It is not relaxation, though people often feel calmer. It is not about never feeling anxious again. And while mindfulness has roots in contemplative traditions, its use in therapy is secular and does not require any particular belief.
What Can Mindfulness-Based Therapy Help With?
Depending on your circumstances and your therapist's clinical assessment, mindfulness-informed approaches may support people experiencing:
- Anxiety, worry, and persistent overthinking
- Depression and low mood
- Chronic stress and burnout
- Avoidance that has narrowed daily life
- Harsh self-criticism
- Grief and loss
- Chronic pain and long-term health conditions
- Difficult experiences from the past that continue to intrude
- Feeling stuck or disconnected from what used to matter
- Living with a long-term condition or diagnosis
It is often useful for people who have already tried to think their way out of something and found that understanding it did not change it.
ACT is not automatically right for everyone, and a therapist should assess that rather than assume.
How Does It Work?
Building the Pause
The practical aim is to lengthen the space between something happening and your reaction to it.
Someone sends a short email. You feel a jolt of anxiety. Ordinarily, within a second, you are rereading it, drafting a defensive reply and reconsidering your standing at work. The reaction had already happened before you noticed the feeling.
Mindfulness work builds the ability to catch that sequence in progress. To notice the jolt, recognize the story your mind is constructing, and decide what to do from there.
In sessions this might involve:
Learning to notice where emotions register in your body, since anxiety and anger often arrive physically before you can name them
Practicing attention on something immediate, such as the breath or a sound, and gently returning when the mind wanders, which it will
Observing thoughts without arguing with them or being convinced by them
Developing a kinder response to your own difficulty, which for many people is the hardest part
Short practices for moments of acute stress
Bringing attention deliberately to ordinary activities
The return is the practice itself. People often conclude they are bad at mindfulness because their mind wanders. The wandering is expected. Noticing it is the skill.
What Might Happen During a Session?
Sessions usually combine conversation with practice.
You may spend time discussing what has been happening, then try a short exercise, and then talk about what you noticed. Exercises are often brief, sometimes only a few minutes, because length is less useful than regularity.
Your therapist may suggest something to practice between sessions. A few minutes daily tends to be more effective than a long session once a week.
Progress is not usually dramatic. People tend to report that they caught themselves before reacting, or recovered from a difficult moment faster than they would have, or noticed a feeling early enough to do something about it.
Is Mindfulness-Based Therapy Right for Me?
It may suit you if you do:
- Find your mind is rarely in the present
- Ruminate on the past or worry about the future
- React strongly and quickly, then regret it
- Feel physically tense much of the time
- Are very self-critical
- Want practical skills you can use outside sessions
- Have found that understanding a pattern has not stopped it happening
It may suit you less if you want an approach built mainly around discussion and insight, or if sitting with internal experience is currently distressing rather than merely uncomfortable. In that case your therapist may suggest a different starting point or an adapted approach.
You do not need to decide in advance. That is what the first conversation is for.
Mindfulness-Based Work at C.S. Counselling
Counselling here does not begin with which technique to use. It begins with what has been happening.
Listen.
We start with your account of what has been going on.
Understand.
We look at the thoughts, reactions, physical patterns, and circumstances involved.
Support.
Where mindfulness-informed strategies are clinically appropriate, your therapist may use them to help you build awareness and more considered responses.
C.S. Counselling has supported clients since 2011, and mindfulness-informed strategies are part of the work of three of our therapists:
Coslyn Selby, RSW
Founder and clinical lead, psychotherapist and registered social worker, with over 20 years of counselling experience.
Sabrina Abrol, RSW
Psychotherapist and Registered Social Worker. Works with anxiety, stress, low mood, and coping. Sessions in English, Punjabi, Hindi, and Urdu.
Komal Pithava
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying). Uses mindfulness-based, grounding, and emotional regulation techniques alongside Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. Sessions in English, Hindi, and Gujarati.
These interventions are only provided within a clinician's professional training, competence, and scope.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy in Brampton & Online Across Ontario
In-person counselling is available at:
C.S. Counselling & Consulting Services 2250 Bovaird Drive E, Suite 408 Brampton, ON L6R 0W3Online sessions across Ontario are available with Sabrina and Komal. These approaches translate well to online sessions, since much of the practice happens in your own environment anyway.
Frequently Asked Questions About Mindfulness-Based Therapy
Is the practice religious?
No. Mindfulness has roots in contemplative traditions, but its therapeutic use is secular and requires no particular belief.
Do I have to meditate for an hour a day?
No. Short, regular practice is generally more useful than long sessions. A few minutes is a realistic starting point.
My mind never stops. Does that mean this will not work for me?
That is the usual starting position, and it is not a disqualification. The aim is not a silent mind but a different relationship with a busy one.
Is this the same as relaxation?
No, though people often feel calmer. Relaxation aims to change how you feel. Mindfulness aims to change how you relate to what you feel.
Can it be combined with other therapy?
Frequently. It is often used alongside CBT and other approaches, depending on your needs and clinician.
Is it available online?
Yes, with Sabrina and Komal. You can discuss whether this approach is appropriate with your therapist.
Start With a Conversation
You do not need to know which therapeutic approach suits you before getting in touch.
Tell us what has been happening, what has been difficult, and what you would like to be different. From there we can explore whether mindfulness-informed work or another approach may fit.
We'll start by listening.
Book Your Free 30-Minute ConsultationC.S. Counselling & Consulting Services
2250 Bovaird Drive E, Suite 408
Brampton, ON L6R 0W3
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